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posted by [personal profile] perigee at 08:52pm on 19/08/2015
Just so's anyone who's listening knows, I've been posting my viewpoint of the time and breakup I shared with Hanne around 2012.

LJ: http://perigee.livejournal.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/malcolm.gin

This is, in short, because I left Dreamwidth and LiveJournal users and friends, so I'm told, with a distinct impression that I wanted folks not to choose between Hanne and me. Now, 3 years later, with lots of therapy, writing, recalling and thinking under my belt, I find myself not wanting friends in common to choose, but I do find that I'm worried about you.

A lot of terrible, hairy, fucked up shit went down and some of it, I fear (for you), is Hanne's making. And I worry that now that I'm deeply and profoundly out of that picture, that she'll hurt you. I worry about it as your friend. And I'm worried that because of all the manipulation and silencing that I experienced really kept me quiet about all of what happened, thinking nothing would help and I would not be believed, and that I had no leverage to speak.

So now I'm speaking. You can believe me or not. You need not. But I hope you will at least be on your guard.
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posted by [personal profile] perigee at 06:36pm on 19/02/2013
I'm cleaning out my friends lists. If I accidentally clean you out and you want to stay in, do drop me a note: malcolm.gin@gmail.com.
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posted by [personal profile] perigee at 09:07am on 14/02/2012
So like, I just found that a symptom I've had all my life is associated with the same sort of constellation of sleep/dream disorders I've been suspecting I have for the past couple years.
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posted by [personal profile] perigee at 09:31pm on 04/02/2012
Did my taxes last weekend and just finished doing Mom and Dad's this evening.
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posted by [personal profile] perigee at 02:58pm on 03/02/2012
Dad's in the assisted living facility.
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posted by [personal profile] perigee at 08:41pm on 31/01/2012
So shimmery and flexible.
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posted by [personal profile] perigee at 10:31pm on 30/01/2012
If you have cause to find out about a power of attorney situation, have a power of attorney established for you by some elder or other friend who trusts you, prioritize as soon as possible the establishment of your credentials as Attorney-in-Fact (the thing you are when you are given power of attorney) with any and all organizations that require your Power of Attorney in order to make decisions on behalf of that friend or elder.

You will invariably find that at the time when you require the most help from the least helpful organization that that will be the organization that insists on a 120-day review period for your power of attorney paperwork.

Yes, I'm talking about you, CalPERS.
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Well almost.
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posted by [personal profile] perigee at 05:14pm on 27/01/2012
Did all I set out to do so far today.
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posted by [personal profile] perigee at 05:12pm on 21/01/2012
There's just so much change. It waxes and wanes.
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